we meet so many people in life . have you ever wondered why u like some and why u instantly abhor someone ? Is it their external appearence , dressing style , looks or just tat you dont "connect" with a person ? i'm sure that many of you like me have the habit of forming preconcieved notions of people . many a time i have firmly decided that i have hated a person . The other day , when i was telling all my woes to my mom she told me one thing "if u hate a person then it just means that you havent understood that person" . At first i thought this made no sense , but later i realised that wen you look carefully at anyone you wont have a reason to hate them .